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The Unexplained

The unexplained
My father is 94 years old. He has not been talking to me, angry because he thinks that I am the reason he is not driving. Blames that on me. No one thinks he should drive.
I cannot explain how someone can reject a daughter over this. I think about this often, an unexplained part of my everyday life.
I think this will go on and he will die not talking to me.
Rain Mays
June 28, 2023
My everyday life orbits around my identity. Or probably, identities. Everything I do relates to who I am. Each facet of my identity influences how my day works. Parts are bigger or smaller but they all play a role.
The crystal facets of my identity shape me – inside the crystal: White, Trans, Queer, American


I can see ghosts (spirits). The 1st time was when I was 9-10, on a family vacation in NewFoundland.
It got easier once I grew older and started practicing reflexology as a hobby (like strengthening a muscle).
I don’t tell very many people because you never know what type of response you’ll get.
But we do on after death. Pets, people – there is something after. Because they can say hello.
T.S. – Yukon, Canada
June 2023